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If anything has earned “boogeyman” status in health & wellness circles, it’s stress. Stress has been linked to the 6 leading causes of death: heart disease, accidents, cancer, liver disease, lung ailments, and suicide...

But not all stress is equal—every human being has a natural ability to respond to different stressors in different ways...

What Stress Really Is

Hans Selye, who’s widely credited with discovering stress in the 1930s...

  1. Alarm: This is the threat response, “fight or flight,” where survival is at stake...
  2. Resistance: Assuming you survive situation #1...
  3. Exhaustion: Back on the savannah, your stress was short-lived...

It’s the Reaction, Not the Stress

While you probably won’t face an actual lion at lunchtime...

You can’t relax away every stressor in your life…so are you just doomed? No!...

Researchers have long recognized that the human body has a bigger repertoire...

You Don’t Want a Stress-Free Life

In her 2013 TED Talk and 2015 book The Upside of Stress, Dr. Kelly McGonigal focuses on...

McGonigal proposes that “you don’t feel stress about things that you don’t care about.”...

You Can Choose: Threat or Challenge

  • A threat response primes your body for self-defense—the classic fight-or-flight scenario...
  • A challenge response, on the other hand, elicits the same kind of reaction as physical exercise...

Most important, McGonigal points out, studies have shown repeatedly...

Let Stress Do Its Job for You, Not on You

Stress will always be part of life. Relaxation has its place (and feels so good)...

  • Allow stress do its job of self-defense—when it’s needed and only as long as it’s needed...
  • Look at your stress response as a built-in support mechanism...

Choosing a healthier stress response in line with your body’s natural capacities...

The key to being brilliant at stress—that is, stress response—is knowing...

References

Stress affects everyone, but each of us has the power to shape its effects...

Abiola Keller, et al., “Does the perception that stress affects health matter?,” Health Psychology journal...
Albert Ellis Institute, “Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy.”...
Alia J. Crum, et al., “Rethinking Stress...
Heidi Hanna, “Redefining Stress,” The American Institute of Stress...
HeySigmund.com, “Rethinking Stress...
Jeremy Jamieson, et al., “Mind Over Matter...
Kelly McGonigal, “How to Make Stress Your Friend,” TED Talk...
Kelly McGonigal, The Upside of Stress...
MacLean Fitzgerald, “Hans Selye: The Discovery of Stress...”
Sir Michael Marmot, et al., Whitehall II (also known as the Stress and Health Study)...
National Institute of Mental Health, “5 Things You Should Know About Stress...”
Robert Sapolsky, Why Zebras Don’t Get Ulcers...